Rebekah Honeycutt

Light and Love be with you!

A Thought: Choices and Regrets

on July 8, 2012

I do not believe in regrets.

I do not believe in mistakes.

In my life, I have made many decisions. Some turned out to be great decisions with fantastic outcomes. Some have been bad decisions with outcomes I wouldn’t want to repeat. The important thing about these results is each of them molded me into the person I am today.

Yes, I have done things I am not exactly proud of. If I hadn’t done them, would I know not to do it again?

In reverse, I have taken part in things I found rewarding. If I hadn’t, would I want to do them again?

I have been asked multiple times if there was a time machine and I could go back and change my life, would I? My answer remains as no. I wouldn’t want to change a thing. Even if I could take the imaginary machine back into my previous paths and attempt to change something, that stubborn girl back then would somehow change it back.

I know she would because I have always felt that my life was in my own hands. If I wanted something, I worked persistently until I achieved it. Even when there were so many signs telling me to turn around, I continued forward. How would I know what was at the end of that road unless I walked it?

I believe in choices.

I believe in me.

Everyone makes them; from the time you wake up to the time you decide to go to sleep. Your life is filled with them, and who you are now is created by the consequences.

If you fear the outcome of a decision, and you don’t make the choice one way or another, are you truly living your life?

We only have one life to live. My advice is:

Make it the life you want it to be. Accept that there are consequences to every decision and don’t put yourself down for the choices you have made. Don’t let the fear of an outcome rule over you. Believe in yourself. Appreciate the paths you have chosen, and continue down the next one.

No matter what you may have heard, you have the control. The ball is always in your court.

What are you going to do with it?

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